This is a post about what I'd say is a facet of human nature. When you were upset with someone, and I mean upset and hurt, maybe even betrayed, what did you do. One may have cried and gotten angry. What if one of your close friends has run off with others and seems to no longer pay attention to you and your friends, what would you do then? One might have talked to others and 'complained' about the situation. These are just some simple problems with simple responses, but they could be applied to a number of situations. The question I want to ask you the reader is as follows, "When you are upset, hurt, betrayed by someone did you actually talk to the person?"
The tendency of our human nature is to wait out our problems,almost as if life has an auto-correct function. X does something wrong and you experience any number of human emotions but choose not to say anything to X. What if X never intended to hurt you but you continue to choose not to say anything?
It is interesting how much people will say to their family, their friends, and even strangers before saying anything to the person who actually did anything to them. It amazes myself that we have been taught as children, to confront our problems and solve them with words, rarely ever happens. From teenagers to adults, we all do it.
If you do not say anything, then nothing will change. It's really as simple as that. If you choose not to do anything to fix a relationship with someone, than you can say goodbye to that person. The reason I write this though, the message, is that people really should try to correct problems and be proactive with those they would not want to lose. If you tell someone what you find wrong in your relationship with them you might be surprised how positive they might be. Go out there and say sorry. admit fault even if you don't agree, and talk it out! You yourself might be surprised how much you yourself might be in the wrong. To those who talk about others behind their back in a strongly negative manner, don't expect the others to know what they've done wrong. They can't act on what they don't know silly! At the same time you shouldn't assume you have the whole story either!
Lets escape the situation where you talk to your friend but no one actually says anything to the person who needs to hear it! Be proactive, take the high road, and save the relationships that are important to you!
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